... ...: Have you ever been so lonely you enchanted a hat to talk to you?
... ...: Read this, might help..personal experience. I think I recently enchanted someone who not only did not trust me, but also flat out did not like me. I did so by first showing respect for his property. A tutor left his written work unattended and I personally returned it to him. At another point,I observed him struggling in pursuit of a personal goal and when the time was right, I offered him empirical insight as to how he could improve his chances. I think he accepted and applied the knowledge I shared with him because a few days ago he made a point to thank me and has been quite friendly with me ever since.